Type Of Ex-Boyfriend To Relate To And Chillax
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Any type of ex-boyfriend reminds one of “Sapna Tha, Toot Gaya, Ex Boyfriend Tha, Choot Gaya,” But it is okay! Take a deep breath, “phewwww…katna to sabka hi hai.”
Now, as your boyfriend has become your ex, better accept him in that way only. Ex-boyfriends can be a pain in the heart when things are new. But hey, once you will cope up with this pain, you will end up stronger. All you need is self pamperings, a lot of self-love, going out shopping, having your favourite food and lots of chit-chat with friends. But, if you are an experienced one, here is a list of ex-boyfriends you might have had in your past to share a smile with us. For singles, this is GK to add to your brain before you enter the arena. UPSC mein aayega! Likhlo!
1. The sentimental one
First on this list is the sentimental one, who will make you feel guilty for your every single past action. Better be aware! He is going to manipulate you with his emotions. Be ready for a guilt trip but do not fall prey to this trap!
2. The psychopath one
This type of ex-boyfriend makes you regret your decision of being with him. They may show suicidal traits, threatening attitudes and emotions to make you come back again in relationships. You should call them out with full courage, without being scared at all! “hum karte hai kuch prabandh.”
3. The benefits one
“Ummmm..naughty haaa…” Do not be too excited about extracting benefits from your ex-boyfriend. This type of ex-boyfriend can be dangerous too for your mental peace but nice for a physical one. But be wise in choosing between the two things as it will trap you somehow in an emotional and physical trap.
4. The fast move on one
He will make you question his loyalty in the relationship as he will move on too fast with someone else. This one should not be followed on Instagram and should be completely cut off as it will become toxic for you to see them with others soon. But it depends on your mental and emotional state too. If you let his stories affect yourself…well. Just focus on yourself!
5. The stalker one
Ting…notification appeared. Your ex-boyfriend liked your seventh-grade fancy dress competition picture. Yes. This type of ex-boyfriend will keep eyes on you, where you are going, what you are doing, eating or with whom you are hanging around. So, better be safe. But these are harmless fellows who just want to keep a check on your life, but if you ever feel uncomfortable, call them out at the same time. Let them know the meaning of personal space.
6. The jealous one
Oof! This is interesting! This type of ex-boyfriend will keep on feeling jealous seeing you hanging around with other guys. Zero acceptability of reality and tolerance, these ones will keep on asking you questions without any authority. You should not entertain such an ex. This will hinder your personal space as now you both are on different roads.
7. The still in love one
This type of ex-boyfriend makes one go back to them again and again. They keep on loving others even after breaking up, showing no changes in attitude and efforts. They keep on doing the same things with love and feelings that make our hearts melt for them. But, “apun ko pighalna nahi hai! Sakthi! But, I know, dil hai ki manta nahi, and ultimately we fall in love again with him.” Though it is not necessary, sometimes there is rigidity, depending upon the person and their feelings.
Although we are no great love advisors, we can just say that, try not to end a relationship as it takes a lot of effort to build any bond. Just keep on working on that. Nonetheless, this should not be done at the cost of your happiness! “Baaki ex aate jate rahenge.”
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